Raziel, that is not the way of "say this, mean that".
When a girl says "Oh, just go, I stay here on my own and be lonely...", a man must realy be stupid not to get the point.
If its good to say "Ok, honey, I stay here, you are so muc more important than my friends" than, is another question.

And Kadann, you are right about everything!
The point on my story is, that I never came back to her or run after her. I broke up, she asked me to try it again. Than she broke up and came back several times. Every time I (was stupid enough to) gave her a chance again, in the end she "didn't know what she wants anymore" or she was "hurt by me because of the women I had in the meantime"...

Well, I said enough about my story, I just think its an interesting topic and you all helped me very much with your storys and heartbreaking memories....

Post on!
 
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Sergeant Major Stormie
Drill Squad Leader (Retired)
Iron Horse Elite Squad Leader (Retired)
Platoon Commander of Storm Platoon (Retired)
Platoon Commander of WildCard Platoon (Retired)
RETIRED/SRGMStormtrooper1026/2PLT/1COM/1BAT/1RGT/VEA/VE/{EW1}{IH}{SoM}{CoR}

The thing to remember is you have to be confident, and sneaky.  Not sneaky as in sneaking around behind their backs, because frankly I can't abide people that cheat.  Sneaky as in...you know she is feeling down, pretend not to notice, then have some flowers sitting in a spot you know she'll see.  Act like you are going shopping for a present, then write her a poem.

And yeah, it's all about the subtle hints.  Listen for tone of voice and body lanuage, because woman never say what they mean, ever.  One more thing, be sure to watch the eyes.  I've always found that you can learn everything by looking into someone's eyes.

I've also noticed that no-one thus far has posted bad stories about you trying to break up.  I've found that is the hardest, for me anyway.  Example:  I was going out with a girl who was waaaaaaaaaay too serious, way too fast, so I told her so.  Tried that several times, didn't work, so I told her that I wanted to break up. 

Some time later, she still has not accepted it, will swear on her grave that we are still together.

And that wasn't the only time I've had to deal with that.

 
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XO/LCM JMac/Aegis 5/Phoenix/mSSD Atrus/DEF/VEN/VE/(=A=)(=SA=)(=MA)(=FOCE=)(MC1)(VC)

Lusthawk 8

The idea of an honorable fight is a joke. What is honorable about harming another human? To win a fight, you have to forget about honor, forget yourself, and lose yourself in a cold burning fire. You have to strike until your target stops moving, smile as they bleed, and kill what soon will be no more then a red pulp a thousand times in your heart before you commit to violence.

  Lol, this seems to be a pretty hot topic.
 
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ASL/CPL Darr-Rann/3SQD/1PLT/1COM/1RGT/1BAT/VEA/VE/Tadath [LoR][CoR]
LANCE CORPORAL
one of few - A vast Empire medic
Read Losses of Vandetta by me and Hellra
www.darr-rann.95mb.com

I dated a guy...for 3 weeks, it didn't work out, typical 'flowers and choclate' type of guy. It bored me to death. He worshipped the ground the ground i walked on.

I'm not much for the guy thing now at the mo,so i wouldn't know much... still growing up
But what I do know is, I dont like typical hollywood cliche guys. It pretty much goes with what Kadann said,

But there are some girls who loves that again, a romantic guy sweeping her off her feet, like Jmac said, its about body language, *shrugs*

 
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-Dark-Dragoons-
SL/SGT Hellra/2SQD/2PLT/1CMP/1REG/1BAT/Tadath/VEA[LoR][ES2C][CoR]

Alright here's something I've found that scares women off pretty damn fast. The intense stare. You know, you'll stare really intensely at them trying to show your interest, it just scares them and you look like a stiff who can't smile. I smile a lot, usually just because I'm in a good mood, I found a glance and a smile goes a long way. Although wearing a constant smirk can make you look like a cocky jerk.

True enough when the rare girl comes around that I'd like to spend some time with (there was this one girl who drove a broken ass looking cuda but could fix damn near anything, I don't know how many times that cuda blew my arse off the strip.) I inevitably start tripping over myself and lose every bit of smooth I ever had.


But to elaborate on what I think Raz was saying, don't worry about the meaning full stuff all the time, sometimes you just have to go have some fun.
 
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{Comnet Hermit}
TRP/GSG Sniping101/4SQD/1PLT/1COM/1BAT/1RGT/VEA/VE [LoR][IH][BoA][CDS]

"(I) Is always hatching plots against newlyweds; I mar the beauty of virgins and cause their hearts to grow cold"

"Deep within every dilemma is a solution that involves explosives" - Joe the Circle

JMac, would that have been Sabrina? Yeah, she's still rather, um, "odd"...
 
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SC/WO1 Chipmunk Man/Aegis 1/Phoenix/mSSD Atrus/DEF/VEN/VE/(=A=)(=SA=)(=*MA*=)[LoC][MC:1]x3[LSM][VC:B]

"I know what you're thinking, punk. You're thinking, 'Did he fire six shots, or only five?' Well to tell you the truth, I've forgotten myself in all this excitement. But being this is a .44 magnum, the most powerful handgun in the world, and will blow your head clean off, you need to ask youself one question: 'Do I feel lucky?' Well, do ya? Punk!"
-"Dirty" Harry Callahan

Ey, nobody is whining! I think this is just interesting!
By the way, I talked to many people in real life, and that we broke up is now 8 months ago.

I just wanted to know how other people think, and what their experiences were.

I am not suprised that we made all the same experiences, but its just funny to hear.

And it seems like I am not the only one, who is interested in this topic...
 
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Sergeant Major Stormie
Drill Squad Leader (Retired)
Iron Horse Elite Squad Leader (Retired)
Platoon Commander of Storm Platoon (Retired)
Platoon Commander of WildCard Platoon (Retired)
RETIRED/SRGMStormtrooper1026/2PLT/1COM/1BAT/1RGT/VEA/VE/{EW1}{IH}{SoM}{CoR}

Ah, sweet! What state?

I'm not sure if I want active or guard yet. Depends on what my relationship status is when I get my commision. If I'm still with Megan, I'll go Guard and continue my schooling. If not, I'll go active a while and get a masters degree later.

I don't understand either. Why do the girls flock to the "bad guys" who break their hearts on a regular basis? I can understand the excitement thing to a degree, but the girls I know who date those guys are always b****ing and moaning about how nasty their boyfriends are. If they hate them so much, why do they date them?

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SC/WO1 Chipmunk Man/Aegis 1/Phoenix/mSSD Atrus/DEF/VEN/VE/(=A=)(=SA=)(=*MA*=)[LoC][MC:1]x3[LSM][VC:B]

"I know what you're thinking, punk. You're thinking, 'Did he fire six shots, or only five?' Well to tell you the truth, I've forgotten myself in all this excitement. But being this is a .44 magnum, the most powerful handgun in the world, and will blow your head clean off, you need to ask youself one question: 'Do I feel lucky?' Well, do ya? Punk!"
-"Dirty" Harry Callahan

I simply asked women, why they like this kinda man. They told me, they have the feeling they could change the man, to something better, and thats what they make interested in them.
So, because you can't change the realy lovely good boys into something better, because they ARE good already, those are less inetesrting.

Crazy, eh? But if I think about it, my girlriends weren't the "pure lovely & sweet ones", either...I like the complicated, "zickig" ones. Hoiw do you say "zickig"? That means a girl is always making a big mess about anything, is jailous and so on....perhaps "goaty", or something?!??
 
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Sergeant Major Stormie
Drill Squad Leader (Retired)
Iron Horse Elite Squad Leader (Retired)
Platoon Commander of Storm Platoon (Retired)
Platoon Commander of WildCard Platoon (Retired)
RETIRED/SRGMStormtrooper1026/2PLT/1COM/1BAT/1RGT/VEA/VE/{EW1}{IH}{SoM}{CoR}

well, i don't like the girls that just don't tell you how they feel. and if you ask them their response is "i don't know". I'm this close |--| to throwing them off a bridge
 
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Corporal Yillis
Iron Horse Squad

TRP/CPL Yillis/1SQD/1PLT/1COM/1RGT/1BAT/VEA/VE/Tadath [LoR] [WM] [GS]
Rep/GameRep Yillis/GameRep: 6/Gaming Division/VET /VE

"This ain't no thinkin' thing, right brain left brain,
It goes a little deeper than that.
It's a chemical, physical, emotional devotion
Passion that we can't hold back.
There's nothin' that we need to analyze
There ain't no rhyme, or reason why.
'Cause this ain't...
No this ain't...
No thinkin' thing."

-Trace Adkins, "No Thinkin' Thing"


Man, I love country music!
 
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SC/WO1 Chipmunk Man/Aegis 1/Phoenix/mSSD Atrus/DEF/VEN/VE/(=A=)(=SA=)(=*MA*=)[LoC][MC:1]x3[LSM][VC:B]

"I know what you're thinking, punk. You're thinking, 'Did he fire six shots, or only five?' Well to tell you the truth, I've forgotten myself in all this excitement. But being this is a .44 magnum, the most powerful handgun in the world, and will blow your head clean off, you need to ask youself one question: 'Do I feel lucky?' Well, do ya? Punk!"
-"Dirty" Harry Callahan

...You know your too into computers when you see 'gIRLS' and think its a help topic for some program....

I`m not really like that, `cause, while I`m good with computers, they arnt 'my thing'.

It really makes you think that whe its under the 'mIRC (Or Other)' topic...

Yeah...I`ve had too many bad experiances with girls for my age...far too many...Well..only three, but far too many.

I do not wish to elaborate.
 
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FM/SCRW/Trevor Evenson/Nazgul 3(1-3)/Wing 1/mSSD Atrus/DEF/VEN/VE/(=*A*=)

well i just broke up with my girlfriend about a week ago. It really felt like Sh** and all because we were going out for about 2 years and then she told me that she wasn't over her last boyfriend and i was really angry.

so we broke up and i spent like 6,000 dollars on her and it all went to waste i really hate myself for that.
 
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I think war might be God's way of teaching us geography~Paul Rodriguez

If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.
- Sun Tzu
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FM/PO2 DJ234/Nazgul 9/Wing 1/mSSD Atrus/Defensive Fleet/VEN/VE (=A=) (=SA=) [VC:B]
Gaming Reporter/G-Rep DJ234/G-Reporter: 3/Gaming Division/VE/VET

Lesson Learned: Don't pay for women.

Like i've been saying long-term relationships are a waste of time. I have what we call the three month rule, as far as I know it's my own invention. It goes something like: The first three months of a relationship are fun, the next three are boring, and months 7-9 are hell. So far i haven't made any first hand observations to discredit this theory.
 
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{Comnet Hermit}
TRP/GSG Sniping101/4SQD/1PLT/1COM/1BAT/1RGT/VEA/VE [LoR][IH][BoA][CDS]

"(I) Is always hatching plots against newlyweds; I mar the beauty of virgins and cause their hearts to grow cold"

"Deep within every dilemma is a solution that involves explosives" - Joe the Circle

oh i'm not saying it's any one person in particular side that makes relationships suck after three months, it's everyones fault, and by that time you actaully know who you're dating, that helps it go to hell too.
 
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{Comnet Hermit}
TRP/GSG Sniping101/4SQD/1PLT/1COM/1BAT/1RGT/VEA/VE [LoR][IH][BoA][CDS]

"(I) Is always hatching plots against newlyweds; I mar the beauty of virgins and cause their hearts to grow cold"

"Deep within every dilemma is a solution that involves explosives" - Joe the Circle