too young, thank god. Sorry about the troubles though
 
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Corporal Yillis
Iron Horse Squad

TRP/CPL Yillis/1SQD/1PLT/1COM/1RGT/1BAT/VEA/VE/Tadath [LoR] [WM] [GS]
Rep/GameRep Yillis/GameRep: 6/Gaming Division/VET /VE

I dunno about other, but i cant settle to long with something or someone before getting bored,

*giggles*


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-Dark-Dragoons-
SL/SGT Hellra/2SQD/2PLT/1CMP/1REG/1BAT/Tadath/VEA[LoR][ES2C][CoR]

Im not american
Pure south african blood running in veins, well except for that irish and french lines.
 
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-Dark-Dragoons-
SL/SGT Hellra/2SQD/2PLT/1CMP/1REG/1BAT/Tadath/VEA[LoR][ES2C][CoR]

Oh, don't worry Stormie, ya aren't alone. Megan and I were going out for six months my senior year of highschool. I will admit that I got a little too serious for our ages, though I really don't think there was any possiblity for me to not get attached. She got cold feet, and dumped me the day before my 18th birthday. I spent nine months trying to get her back, without success. Managed to get over wanting her back for three months (note I said "wanting her back," not "missing her").

Just as I was finnally getting over it, she called me up and asked me to take her to her prom. She's finnally figured out I'm the best guy for her, and noone else will treat her as gentlemanly as me, right? Nope. We've had a slightly tense relationship since (she wants to keep that distance, I'd like to actually be able to admit I love her). Now, I'm going to have to transfer colleges in a year or two anyway, and asked her if she'd want me to transfer out with her when she goes to college. Nope. "Likes me very very much, and enjoys dating me and wants to keep dating for a while, but can't see us spending the rest of our lives together." Wish to God I could figure out why...

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SC/WO1 Chipmunk Man/Aegis 1/Phoenix/mSSD Atrus/DEF/VEN/VE/(=A=)(=SA=)(=*MA*=)[LoC][MC:1]x3[LSM][VC:B]

"I know what you're thinking, punk. You're thinking, 'Did he fire six shots, or only five?' Well to tell you the truth, I've forgotten myself in all this excitement. But being this is a .44 magnum, the most powerful handgun in the world, and will blow your head clean off, you need to ask youself one question: 'Do I feel lucky?' Well, do ya? Punk!"
-"Dirty" Harry Callahan

Relationships lose their fun after the first three months, then it gets boring and actaully requires some degree of effort, really doesn't seem to pay off in the long run.

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{Comnet Hermit}
TRP/GSG Sniping101/4SQD/1PLT/1COM/1BAT/1RGT/VEA/VE [LoR][IH][BoA][CDS]

"(I) Is always hatching plots against newlyweds; I mar the beauty of virgins and cause their hearts to grow cold"

"Deep within every dilemma is a solution that involves explosives" - Joe the Circle

Don't even talk to me about the evilness of girls. Just be thankful you broke up before you spent $1.5k on an engagement ring, only to get it back a month later after finding out she's cheating on you...

But yeah...I feel for you stormie. But like all things this too will pass. Let it hurt, learn from it, and next time the same mistakes wont be made...

...like getting involved in the first place...

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[LoR] [RoM] [BC] [CDS] [WM] [GRoM] [IH] {BoA}
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CM/SG Jikkyo "Angel" Nimiichi/Eagle 1-1/Sith/Dark Jedi Order/Vast Empire [VP:1]
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Yes Angel, you are totaly right - learning is the positive way to see it.

My girl didn't cheat on me, but I can imagine the feelings you had. Its so hard to think of her, kissing (and so on) another man. And even I don't want to, I have those pictures in my head, every single day.

So, I am not happy that you had to handle the same sh**, but I am glad that I am not alone in this girled-poisened world...

And your question is good, chipmunk man!
I guess mostly they don't know what they want. If a girl cheats on you, it doesn't have to mean that she doesn't love you anymore.Perhaps she loves you very much, but she wanted a little bit of freedom after a long relationship. Or she "knows" that you are the man for her, but also knows that a relationship wouldn't work....

Its mostly said that men are the "Head-thinker" and women are the romantic ones, who use their heart. But I think that's not true - many men uses to much of their heart and get realy hurt because of that.

Wow, I hope that wasn't too soft for a Stormtrooper...well, I am retired, I can act gay...

Post on, nice discussion.

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Sergeant Major Stormie
Drill Squad Leader (Retired)
Iron Horse Elite Squad Leader (Retired)
Platoon Commander of Storm Platoon (Retired)
Platoon Commander of WildCard Platoon (Retired)
RETIRED/SRGMStormtrooper1026/2PLT/1COM/1BAT/1RGT/VEA/VE/{EW1}{IH}{SoM}{CoR}

It's the great mystery chip....

And just to be fair, not ALL girls are evil, and not ALL of them expect you to interpret what they say. In fact most of my really good friends are girls who aren't either of those. Unfortunately, the only girls that I generally approach and end up with ARE...

maybe the ones we see as our "types" really aren't. A lot of the time we bring these things down upon ourselves then try to blame shift it onto our significant others

And I didn't spend much time thinking about things like that Stormie...I was too pissed to bother

And Chip...nothing is that bad . Hell, looking back on it now it was probably the best thing that ever happened to me. Better now than later.

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Sith Guardian
CM/SG Jikkyo "Angel" Nimiichi/Eagle 1-1/Sith/Dark Jedi Order/Vast Empire [VP:1]
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Can I just say, guys confuse the hell out of me, so you boys aren't the only ones. Maybe we're not supposed to be able to communicate, who knows.

I just know that every guy I've gone for has turned out to be an arrogant jerk, juggling a few girls on the side or has been lusting constantly over one thing and, as a result, is totally disinterested in other relationship style activities. My girlfriends have developed a new saying over the last few months following being dumped, cheated on and twisted around:

"Boys suck."

Not a statement I'm currently supporting...but I'm getting real close


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Iron Horse Squad
SL/GSG Kami/1SQD/1PLT/1COM/1BAT/1RGT/VEA/VE [LoR] [CoR] [IG] [GCA] [BC]
TRN/KAD Kami/Training 1-3/VEDJ/VE
-=Surrender to your darkest dreams, and you'll live as you've never lived before...=-
+ Advance Recon Commandos {ARC} +

See, this is why one night relationships work they best, they're usually loads of fun, there's no communication confusion, there's no cheating, there might be lieing but you'd never know, and there's no saying that there is no love, sometimes there very much is, just after that night it's never going to get any better so why ruin it with a relationship that will eventually crumble and end in dislike and distrust. I've had alot of girlfriends, i wouldn't consider myself a playa, one because I don't like the word, and two because it implies some degree of dishonesty, I've never cheated on a girl, still can't figure out why. But anyway, I loved all my girlfriends, and i still do, but there's not just one perfect women for me, i have too many diffrent, errr, sides i guess. And I could never bear marriage, i'd hate to have to settle down, have kids, own a house, live in the same place, the very idea disgusts me, not that i have anything against other doing it, just he idea of me doing it is thoroughly disgusting.

From an evolutionary standpoint it helps the human reproduction rate if men and women can't communicate.
 
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{Comnet Hermit}
TRP/GSG Sniping101/4SQD/1PLT/1COM/1BAT/1RGT/VEA/VE [LoR][IH][BoA][CDS]

"(I) Is always hatching plots against newlyweds; I mar the beauty of virgins and cause their hearts to grow cold"

"Deep within every dilemma is a solution that involves explosives" - Joe the Circle

My stories don't need to be posted here, but let's just say I feel your pain.

Bitter old man at 22.
 
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OO/SM Sierra "Talon" Taurus/HC-3/VEHC/VE[BC][IOC][LoC][SoS][BM][CDS][MSM][MoH]
GM-SL/DJM "Nightblades"/DC-1/Elite Griffen Sect/VSD-II Griffen/VEDJ/VE[IOC][OQD][WoS 2nd Class][EoP][SoY][SCx2]
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CEO Vincent "Claw" Taurus/ECHC-1/Endoven/Dome 8473/VEEC/VE
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Verastinian Republic - Minster of Antiquities (Fossil Technology)

I was engaged to a girl for several months before I went to Army basic training... then she cheated on me five times. I didn't find out until three months after I got home. That ended in a hurry. I was out of action for several months... depressed so to speak. I finally started dating again, and got married after a year. We have a... decent relationship, and that's all that matters. As long as you connect well then it will succeed. I'm only twenty so I guess I'm doing okay.
 
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Sergeant Slick
-=Raider Squad=--=SL=-
SL/SGT Slick/3SQD/1PLT/1COM/1RGT/1BAT/VEA/VE/Tadath[LoR][CoR][CoH]

Yeah.. it's pretty common in the military. Seems to be worse in the submarine fleet. :-/
 
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GM-SL/DJM "Nightblades"/DC-1/Elite Griffen Sect/VSD-II Griffen/VEDJ/VE[IOC][OQD][WoS 2nd Class][EoP][SoY][SCx2]
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SCAP/COM Vincent "Claw" Taurus/ISD Nemesis/Offensive Fleet/VEN/VE[=*A*=][=*SA*=][LoM][IOC][IC2]
CEO Vincent "Claw" Taurus/ECHC-1/Endoven/Dome 8473/VEEC/VE
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Verastinian Republic - Minster of Antiquities (Fossil Technology)

Interesting stories there guys. Just remember...if you were meant to be with the person, you would be. If not, then there are bigger fish in the sea.

One thing to keep in mind if you're going to be chasing after girls. You can't have a mindset that it's the end of the world if you aren't with that person. If that's the case, then it will just be a big turn-off. Girls like a challenge of finding and/or chasing after a man. Don't make it easy for them or it will be harder for you.

Why do you think most girls like those romance novels or movies. They like the excitement of the process in which the relationship is formed.

Don't get me wrong though. You want them to know you're interested. But you also don't want them to think that it would be the end of the world to not have them. You basically want the mindset that if they are interested, cool, if not, you could care less. When in all actuality you probably will care; you just can't show them that. You'll only show them you care in brief moments so they know that you're interested in them.

Now, if you're been dating for around a year or more, then it's probably ok to show them you care at more times. But you still have to keep the excitement alive.

There is nothing worse than having someone be with you because they either don't want to hurt your feelings with a breakup or they feel sorry for you. That doesn't do either of you justice. And usually only leads to cheating and bad feelings.

Sorry to say, but that sounds like what happened to you guys. The girls became really distant and yet still stayed with you prolonging the inevitable breakup because they were to afraid of hurting you. If they wait long enough, they'll just cheat to get out of it cause they see no other way.

And any females out there.  Don't make it so hard to figure out what you're trying to say.  Cause guess what; we won't 'get' it...hehe.  Guys are pretty easy for you as we seem to have the hard jobs in the whole process. 

One thing to remember though to help you spot a 'playa'; if he isn't nervous talking with you, then it isn't genuine.  Same goes for the other way.

At least those are my thoughts on the subject. 
 
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Grand Moff Kadann, Dark Lord
Head of the Vast Empire High Council
HHC/GM Kadann/HC-1/mSSD Atrus {EE}{MoH}{TT}{SY4}

Well i've been with Emma for over four years now, we're engaged and living together and i have to say we havent ever argued and barely ever have communication problems.

Guys, you must learn however, to watch for the girlie test. It goes something like this:

"Oh i dont mind if you go out with your friends tonight, i'll just be lonely. Yeah you go out and have fun . . ."

Lies! What she wants you to do is stay in with her, thus proving that you really care about her more. Watch for that test now!
 
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+ Advance Recon Commandos {ARC} +
PL:A/CPT/Raziel/1PLT/1COMP/1BAT/1RGT/VEA/VE/{EW1} (WoS1) 2x(VP:1) {IG} {CDS} {BoA} {PoC} {BC} {GRoM} {SoS} {IH}
Assistant Squad Leader - Raiders
"Computer games don't affect kids; I mean if Pac-Man affected us as kids, we'd all be running around in darkened rooms, munching magic pills and listening to repetitive electronic music." Kristian Wilson, Nintendo, Inc, 1989.

"God does not play dice with the universe" - Albert Einstein
"Who are you to tell God what to do with his dice?" - Bohr
"God does not play dice with the universe. He plays an ineffable game of His own devising, which might be compared, from the perspective of any of the other players [i.e. everybody], to being involved in an obscure and complex variant of poker in a pitch-dark room, with blank cards, for infinite stakes, with a Dealer who won't tell you the rules, and who smiles all the time." - Terry Pratchett
CM/DJK Raziel/lion 1-5/Krath/VEDJ/VE (WoS1) (VP1) (VP2)